The Power of Sex (Part II)

In part one of this article we discussed some ideas that contribute to having great sex. In this the last part of the article, we are going to discuss the rest of the factors. They are MOOD, IMPLEMENTATION AND ATTENTIVE. There are other essential factors needed for having superior sex than discuss in these articles. However, the basic factors discussed in this two-part article are also good. Remember, these factors must exist between the man and the woman in order for them to enhancing their sexual experience. For many years a lot has been said about sex, sex, sex and how great it is. Yes it is true that sex can be great. On the other hand there are also other times when you may ask your self this question after sex, “What did I do that for, it wasn’t so great” Am I right? Have you ever wondered why you feel like that? Here we go.

FACTOR FOUR: MOOD

Mood means it is best for two people to have sex because they are in the mood and are willing. What I mean is for example; a person should not have sex for the sake of making his or her partner happy. These kinds of sexual acts are general one sided. Why, because it is done to please one partner. Both you and your mate must be in the right mood and willing to enjoy each other. Sexual intercourse performs for purely gratification one partner is not fulfilling for the unwilling mate. While as if both participants are willing, they will both enjoy it. This also shows each others respect for the other because the act is not being done to please just one partner. Remember, if you are not willing to do something but you are pushed to do it, you will not like it. Am I making sense?

SUGGESTIONS: Respect for your mate’s feelings and willingness is very important. It shows you care and value your partner. Remember sex should be fulfilling for both the man and the woman.

The power of sex to unite two people is possible only when it is done right. Think about it.

FACTOR FIVE: IMPLEMENTATION

When you have learned all that you can, apply it. Sure there is the likely hood that you may not learn everything there is to know about sex. That is okay, all you need to know is what to do to make your sexual relationship with your spouse fulfilling. Why I say this is because different things pleases different individuals. Try to find each other’s niche and everything will be fine. When sex is done right the bond it will create between man and wife will be unbreakable.

SUGGESTIONS: My suggestion is take your time. Don’t be concern if you know very little. As time goes on, you will discover other things that please your mate. When this happen, take a mental note so that you remember next time. In some cases, both partners verbally tell inform their companions their likes and dislikes about sex. Such an approach may make some people feel unknowledgeable and embarrass. Don’t let it bother you. There is nothing wrong with learning something that will enhance your marriage. Remember you can only learn if you are taught.

FACTOR SIX: ATTENTIVE

All human beings are the same. When you are with a person, you will appreciate it if the person gave his or her attention to you. When you pay attention to a person, you show you care and respect the person. Good sex should be respectful. Leave the idea of banging away like there is no tomorrow out. Remembering that the person you are with also has feelings. Your attentiveness to your partner prior to, during and after sex will enhance your expression of love through sex. There are many TV shows and Magazines that discuss sex. What I have noticed is for the most part, 90% of the content talks about how to please the women. Where to find her pleasure points and so forth. Good sexual intercourse is about the two people involved.

SUGGESTIONS: Both the man and the woman must try to be attentive to one another. This way both participants come out satisfy with each other. Include the factors discussed in these two part articles in your sex life and your sex life will feel much more fulfilling.

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